Its not easy....

Some days lately are very easy, others not so.

Yesterday was one of those not so easy days. See if ANYONE who is raising a child with disabilities thinks they are doing a wonderful job managing EVERYTHING your wrong. We only have so many minutes in the day and each of those minutes are needed to do what we need to do to survive. So something has to give... right? Wrong! See we are doing an amazing job at surviving not managing...

Well at times it could be you that gets forgotten, another child in the house, an animal in the house who doesn't get walked or your spouse who feels left out..... but the most important thing you can do for everyone is remember one thing.... you are in survival mode! So do what needs to be done and survive so don't get upset that you lost track but learn from it.... remember EVERYONE counts in every one of those minutes... don't forget and loose track of anyone of those people just little things can make the difference when it comes to stress in our lives... a thank you, a quick kiss or a long moment at night when the kids go to bed! Yeah you'll loose some sleep but hey you are use to that by now.

So please if anyone can take what I've learned in the week.... you count just as much as everyone else and everyone else counts just as much as you.

Hug your kids... tell your husband you love him... and why not spend a minute or two on the floor patting the dog and while your there dust the tv cabinet... multi-tasking never really hurts!!! LOL LOL LOL